The man who was born again

This story happened with me and one man of middle age in one of typical cities in well known rich country, where all cities are the same: small and full of hopelessness, where most of all people do not like anybody (author note: some proofs of the last statement will be made in an anecdote's story in future). I met the hero of this story occasionaly. Imagine attractive, tall, blondie man with blue eyes who is still physically fit for his age. He could do some money for living but he lived poorly in parent's house. He was alone, despite having had a colorful story of relationships, two marriages in the past and a current partner. His parents died long ago. What was a problem with the man? Why he wass unstable, undeveloped and alone? Possibly he has no own goals or he is silly. No, he is smart. In his youth, he had some dreams and worked hard towards achieving them. Possibly, we can not say that he was alone, because men and women went through his house constantly. How and why he stuck in the hell on the Earth? You will get answers at the end of this #truthstory. During our first meeting I have presented myself and we had a small dialogue. Some days later, he came up to me, when I walk near his home and we have started dialogue that was more complicated. I saw who is he and where is the main problem of his lifestyle. Of course, it is not possible to get warm friendship from the first meeting in this situation, more over in that country, as well as it is not possible to understand any individual completely after short talk or two. However, I noticed that his main problem is irregular but frequent long binges with “friends”. I took a notice and the Time have resolved all other issues. We had a lot of short meetings from time to time where I was talking with him about my life and life principles and he gradually told me about his life. He was excited by the differences in our outlook, approaches and other things. He was interested why I looked more younger although we are the same age. Once I met some his neighbors and they told me that the man stuck in the next binge for a week and I saw that a process of his degradation have been accelerated. I decided to help him to change his life as I could. I threw back tolerance and tact and went to his home. I knew that on his parties he drunk a lot of bad quality alcohol. I had some strong brandy and whisky of good homemade quality and I took a bottle to him as a present. He met me in broken condition, but we talked a lot and I gave him the bottle with some words. He agreed the deal and said thank you. Some days later, we had a new meeting where he was faster and more cheerful then before. We discussed his matters, and I remembered him the words of my appeal. He stated that he made a word. I will not waste a time of readers and I fulfill the promise given at the beginning of the story. In result of my experiment, despite of any external and internal conditions, our hero was born himself again. You may ask why he was born himself. Because he re-found #ownyellowbrickroad. The way of young man, which he have had and lost later. When he found the difference in states after drinking different drinks he have started to remove his own alcohol addiction. He saw that friends of him were not friends; they were people that want free drinks when he had money. He reduced quantity of the parties and realized the real nature of friends, because they are disappeared. Later, he lost a girlfriend and occasional meeting with his second ex-wife made another coup in his life. He told me later that during more than 10 years of twilight he have already begun to lose hope that there are exist people for him in the world. They were married with hsi secon ex-wife again and got a baby. They are happy together. The #truthstory show us that words in our life as and humanism and people relations can us do miracles. Your attention, intrusion in the life and reasonable words can help people to save their life even if they are can not believe in purity of intent of the people. Say what you think, but think what you say. Probably, you have last question: why I made this intrusion and helped the person to found exit from his life maze. I answer to your question. In the childhood, when I had summer holidays in this city we have played with him and his brother. That’s all? No! When I see that healthy, smart and clever human individual stuck in the life prison, when I see that he in this state because social environment, then I cannot pass through. If words and deeds of some people changed the life of other people, we must give a chance to them and most of them will save their lives! We are human who were able to change the Earth to poor state and we can change it back if we will want. Why we can’t change our life and life of one person near us? Do you believe me? Try and see results! ©Alex B commercial use only by written agreement